Friday, March 1, 2013

Bit of Torah -- Parashat Ki Tissa, 5773

The great leader ascends the mountain.  He speaks with God and receives the Law before descending to the people.  After smashing the tablets, he returns to the summit.  He speaks with God once more.  Then,

“Moses came down from Mount Sinai.  And as Moses came down from the mountain bearing the two tablets of the Pact, Moses was not aware that the skin of his face was radiant, since he had spoken with God” (Exodus 34:29).
Even in a book of the unexpected (speaking animals, parting seas, celestial ladders), a man that glows is astonishing.

But we should not be surprised.  All great encounters change us.  Whether with another person or with the Divine, when we meet somebody—really meet them—we are transformed.
Martin Buber calls this “I/Thou”—the honest, appreciative, open encounter we have when we see others as unique and precious entitles with their own realities, experiences, needs, emotions.   Buber contrasts such respectful encounters with ones he calls “I/It,” in which we treat others as objects that exist merely to fulfill our needs.

Experiencing someone else as a full being involves getting to know him or her.  Not in the superficial ways, but deeply—what makes him tick, what are her dreams and flaws.  Such intimate knowledge of another is a form of love.  When we are radically open to another’s truth, our world expands and we cannot help but change.
The Torah expresses Moses’ transformation by saying that he glows.  Now that’s enlightenment.

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