Thursday, April 10, 2014

Pesach 5774: From Yachatz (“Split”) to Afikomen (“Dessert”)


At our Seders on Monday night, we will hold up the middle of three matzot and proclaim: “This the bread of affliction, which our ancestors ate in the Land of Egypt.”  Then we will break it in two.

When we break the matzah, we remind ourselves that our world, too, is broken.  This sphere is one of misunderstandings, shortcomings, disappointments, and failures.  Our dreams come to naught.  We say things we don’t mean.  We hurt others, both on purpose and unintentionally.  There is poverty and pain.  Not only is the world broken, but we are broken, too.  Life, like a piece of matzah, is bumpy, uneven, and brittle. 

But all is not lost.

When we’ve told the story and our stomachs are full, we remember that lost piece of matzah.  We’ll realize that our meal is incomplete without it.  The broken bit has become the afikoman, the dessert.  What appeared worthless is actually perfect just as it is.  What was once hopeless has been redeemed.  This world is simultaneously imperfect AND marvelous, as is each one of us.

A Seder is a telling of the Exodus story through food.  Each bite, each idea, each song is a piece of a jigsaw puzzle of understandings.  By reliving our slavery and our liberation, we declare our supreme identities:  free people capable of empathy.  Through the telling of the story, the fragments become the whole.

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